When chasing a girl, you will go through the process from unfamiliar to familiar. It is this process that stumps many boys. Because their daily lives are relatively monotonous and they have little contact with girls, these boys don’t know how to chat with the girls they just met, resulting in them still feeling like strangers after chatting for a long time. So how can you eliminate the strangeness when chatting with a girl you just met?
1. Topics that cannot be discussed h2>
If you want to eliminate the strangeness by chatting with a girl you just met, you must know some taboo topics in chat, such as:
1. Feelings
When you have just met a girl, you must be careful not to talk about relationships. If you don't want to offend her, then don't mention your ex or the other person's relationship history.
2. Too specific questions
If the questions are too specific, the chat will become too formal. After all, you have just met and you are not her boyfriend yet. If you ask these questions, it will be too formal. Asking formal questions will only make your chat become like a blind date, which will make the girl feel bad.
3. Negative topics
No one likes negative topics. If you have just met a girl, you will complain about work and life intentionally or unintentionally during the chat. Negative energy will only make the other person think that you are a person who only knows how to complain and has no enterprising spirit.
2. Topics to talk about
Chat with a girl you just met and want to eliminate the feeling of strangeness. Then the chat can't just be you talking about the double act, but an interaction where both parties talk. Therefore, the topic needs to be chosen that girls are more interested in and knowledgeable about, so as to create an interactive chat.
Under normal circumstances, we can choose the topic based on the other party’s circle of friends. For example, if a girl has a pet, you can talk about how well-behaved your pet is, and girls will usually talk about their own. With pets, interaction happens naturally.
3. Chat time
1. Don’t send messages too frequently
After all, there is still a thick wall of strangeness between you and the girl you just met. Therefore, we have to be smart and not chat with each other too frequently. Try to get to know the girl first through WeChat Moments and other methods.
2. Choose to chat with the girl when she is free
Only by chatting with the girl when the other party is free can you get a reply. After all, girls will not like to work when they are working. , I am interrupted while doing work, so how do I know when the other person is free?
First, from 8 pm to 11 pm, this time period is when women are more free.time;
The second is based on the time when girls post in Moments. When girls upload pictures in Moments, they will definitely retouch them first. During this time, you can also chat with girls.
3. Control the chat time
Under normal circumstances, a girl you just met will take the initiative to chat with you , and they are very enthusiastic, so it is basically because of the sense of mystery, so we must control the time of chatting. If the chat lasts too long, it will only lose the sense of mystery and make the other party lose the desire to explore. It is also a sign of carefulness to end the chat before the break.
