Many boys often fall into a state of being unable to find topics when chatting with girls. In order to help you solve this problem, today I will tell you how to find topics when chatting with girls.
1. Things to note when chatting
If you have just met a girl, you might like her too much And if you are ready to kneel down and lick her, it will definitely be difficult for you to attract her.
Some boys find that girls don’t reply to them for a long time, so they start asking questions like a machine gun, sending several sentences in a row. This is also a very bad mentality. You can change your stance and think about it. If a girl you just met sends you such a message, you will think of this person as a very low-level person, not an attractive person.
Therefore, you must have the correct mentality before chatting, and do not expose your needs too much, which can easily make you a spare tire.
2. Chat skills
Don’t hide your own personality, and don’t just say the wrong thing just because you’re worried about it. Remain silent and say whatever you want.
When you can’t find a topic for chatting, you can play some conversation “games” to make the atmosphere ambiguous and interesting. The choice of game can be "Truth or Dare", or an ambiguous word game.
Girls like challenging men. If you want a girl to be interested in you, you need to make her feel like she needs to slowly win your heart. If she thinks you're too unchallenging and mysterious, she won't be interested in you.
If you don’t know what topics girls are interested in, then the best way to chat is to find some interesting and humorous topics for conversation. As long as it makes them happy, that's fine.
3. Collection of chat topics
Work topics
Her preferences
Her idols
Pets
Clothes/cosmetics
Humorous jokes
Movies/music
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Interesting things in daily life
Thoughts
