People who can talk and have high emotional intelligence actually know what you are thinking at this moment and empathize with your emotions. This is also called "empathy." Then you think she has high emotional intelligence, isn't it because she said it to you? If you feel "cool", it's as simple as that. Let's take a look at the tips for chatting with girls.
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1 She is complaining, and you follow her complaint. It doesn’t matter if a girl is chatting with her best friend or a boy is chatting with his girlfriend. When she complains to you about someone, don’t worry about whether she is right or not, just stand by her. From her point of view, support her unconditionally. For example: For example, a girl says that her boss is really stupid and is looking for trouble. At this time, don't worry about whether her thoughts are right or wrong. Just help her scold her boss. When you are angry, you only care about your emotions and not your intellect. After you calm down, you will think rationally. Then when your emotions calm down, you can look back and say, actually, we have to look at this matter objectively. The boss has a problem, but we have a problem. You have to be yourself, right. This is high emotional intelligence.
2 Deliberately misinterpret the meaning and avoid embarrassing and straightforward questions when chatting with girls. You should learn some techniques of deliberate misinterpretation. Make a woman's heart flutter, otherwise you won't be able to surprise her even if you already know some answers, and it will look very boring. For example, if a girl asks if she likes you, most boys will definitely confess. Boys with high emotional intelligence will deliberately misinterpret and ask girls if they like her. Myself, this kind of trick can actually make girls' emotions fluctuate.
Three-way praise, praise>detailed praise>vague praise. When chatting with high emotional intelligence, you must learn how to praise people. Praising people is a technical job. Come on, let’s talk about how to praise. Just praise lightly, otherwise it will feel very hypocritical. There are three main ways to praise. Use other people’s words to praise. Complimenting details is called "detailed praise", and general and vague praise is called "fuzzy praise". Then we usually say, eh, this girl is really beautiful. This is vague praise, because the word "beautiful" is very general and vague. Everyone will say that it feels alienating. What is better is "detailed praise", which is to praise a person's details.
For example: the one under the corner of your eye. Moles are very beautiful. This is a detailed compliment. Because others are looking at the overall picture, "moles under the eyes" are all details. Most people will not pay attention to them, and your praise will appear to be very thoughtful. It is: third-party praise. Use other people's words to praise. For example: I heard from my friend that you are a very good person, and it turned out to be true today. You see, using the third-party words of friends to express your approval of the girl. It is an expression of high emotional intelligence.
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