Recently, while browsing videos, I stumbled upon A Cheng's love tips. As someone who has been through it, I found his advice particularly insightful. Today, I want to discuss this topic, especially offering some advice to women who are still struggling to find a partner.
First, a point A Cheng made resonated deeply with me: love is not everything in life. Many women, once they fall in love, tend to focus all their attention on their partner, even abandoning their own lives and interests. In reality, this can make the other person feel pressured and even find you less attractive. As Wang Lili commented, "Classic, absolutely right! Unmarried women should know this early, benefit early!" Indeed, maintaining your independence and life rhythm not only makes you more attractive but also helps sustain the relationship longer.
Secondly, A Cheng emphasized that actions speak louder than words. Many women are easily swayed by sweet talk, thinking that a few "I love yous" mean true love. However, real love is shown through actions. For example, whether he is willing to invest time and energy in you, whether he is there for you when you need him. These are the key indicators of someone's true feelings for you.
Another point I find particularly important is not to change yourself to please your partner. Many women unconsciously morph into what their partner likes, even giving up their principles and bottom lines. A Cheng is right; someone who truly loves you will accept you as you are, not ask you to change. So, never compromise yourself for love, as it will only make you lose yourself and ultimately not find true happiness.
Additionally, A Cheng mentioned something I find very practical: speak your mind. Many women like to make men guess their thoughts, which leads to misunderstandings and frustration. In fact, directly expressing your needs and feelings can avoid many misunderstandings and make the relationship smoother. After all, men and women think differently; instead of making him guess, it"s better to tell him your thoughts directly.
Lastly, A Cheng reminded everyone that love requires effort from both sides. Don"t always expect the other person to do things for you; learn to give as well. Whether it's daily care or occasional surprises, these can make the other person feel your love. This way, the relationship will be more stable.
Overall, A Cheng"s advice is incredibly practical, especially for women who are new to dating—it's like a "love-finding manual." I hope these tips can help those of you troubled by love. Remember, love is beautiful, but the premise is that you must first love yourself, maintain independence and confidence, to meet the right person.
