As an otaku who has lived in Guangzhou for many years, I deeply understand the hardships of finding a partner. Every time I see couples showing off their love on social media, my heart is filled with mixed emotions. However, after some exploration and practice, I have discovered some effective techniques for finding love, and today I want to share them with you.
First and foremost, painting a big picture is really important. Girls like guys who have dreams and aspirations. You can moderately describe a beautiful future life, such as traveling the world together or opening a small shop. Of course, the premise is that you need to take some real actions, not just talk. As my friend said, "Girls look for boyfriends because they want a future they can rely on."
Secondly, compliments are essential. Girls love to be praised, especially when you compliment their beauty in public. Even if she is not particularly outstanding, you should find her strengths and sincerely praise her. For example, you can say, "You look particularly elegant in this outfit today." This way, it won't seem insincere and will make her happy.
Lastly, the way you address her is also crucial. Once the relationship progresses a bit, you can start calling her "wife." This is a kind of psychological suggestion; the more you call her that, the more she will gradually accept the role. Of course, this should be based on a good relationship; otherwise, it might backfire.
Speaking of which, I recall an interesting example. I have a friend who is average in many aspects but is exceptionally good at massage. Once, he gave a massage to a girl from Hunan, and his skills were so good that she couldn"t get enough. Later, the girl proactively added him on WeChat and often asked him out for massages. Eventually, they ended up together. This made me realize that sometimes, having a special skill can really make you stand out in the dating scene.
There are also many interesting shares in the comment section. For instance, Brother Zhi, a 70s generation drifter in Beijing, reposted this article, indicating that these tips indeed resonate with people.
In summary, finding love is not a difficult task; the key is to put effort into it. I hope my experiences can help single otakus out there to find their own happiness soon.