Have you ever had a good chat with a girl? She responded to your messages very positively. The girl will even take the initiative to chat with you. But as long as you reveal that you want to ask her out, the girl will usually make excuses. Reject you, do you know why?
Why are girls willing to chat with you but unable to date you?
If girls only chat but don’t meet each other, there may be the following situations:
1. Treat you as Tool person
You think that a girl is very enthusiastic when chatting with you because she has a good impression of you. In fact, when a girl is chatting with you, she will also talk to other boys of hers. The reason why she is unwilling to come out to meet is because the girl is In her heart, you are just a tree hole for her to talk to, or she chats with you to kill time when she is bored. Maybe she already has a boyfriend. To put it bluntly, she has never thought about further development with you. Since you are just acting on occasion, how could she come out to meet you?
2. Girls feel unfamiliar with you
For girls, you are just a stranger you can chat with. Her reply to your message is just out of politeness, but you think She just talks to you a lot, but in fact she is just trying to deal with your attentiveness. Have you ever thought about going out on a date with someone you don’t know very well? Moreover, girls generally have a sense of safety and are worried about being cheated when meeting someone they are not familiar with. Therefore, if you have only known the girl for a few days, don’t even think about going on a date. At this time, it is better to learn to get closer to the girl and make the girl trust you. What you should do.
3. A girl is afraid that you don’t like her
If a girl talks well to you, Occasionally, you can make an ambiguous joke, but every time you ask her out, she will push it away. But after rejecting you, she will be more proactive than before, take the initiative to come to chat with you, and take the initiative to maintain this relationship. In fact, to put it bluntly, this girl is a little unsure. You don't like her after meeting her. If this is the case, then you don't have to worry. Give the other party some time and slowly dispel her concerns. I believe that one day she will come out to meet you.
I don’t know what the specific situation is between you and the girl. If you still can’t determine which situation you and the girl belong to after reading the above content, then you can come to me to help you analyze it. See what the girls think.
