Most boys have endless things to say when chatting with friends, but once they chat with a girl they like, they suddenly stop looking for topics and always talk awkwardly. What should I do in this situation?
How to find topics to chat with girls without making them awkward?
1. Use fewer questions
Many boys will almost always ask some questions when they first meet a girl. But in the minds of girls, a lot of questions = boring, and then they don’t want to deal with them anymore.
Therefore, you can try to change it and change the interrogative sentence into a declarative sentence.
For example, if you want to ask a girl if she has eaten? You can say: "You don't know how to cook, but I see that you eat well every day."
The girl tells you : "It's all cooked by my grandma and mother." You can just say: "I envy you, I also want to eat the food cooked by my family."
You are talking too fast, you are not a chatterbox. Have you opened it?
Fixed sentence patterns include "I think you are a... girl", "You seem to be...", "Have you practiced the ability of..." .
2. Reasonably extend the topic
In fact, this is no different from your previous writing. For example, if the teacher asks you to write "spring in your hometown", how would you write it? There are two key words, one is "hometown" and the other is "spring".
If you grasp "spring" and expand your imagination, you can write about spring rain, rape blossoms, peach blossoms, etc. If you grasp "hometown" and expand your imagination, you can describe farmers working in the fields, frogs gradually croaking in the fields, etc.
In the same way, the content of the chat is hidden in the girl’s words. When a girl says, "I'm too tired from working overtime today." There are two key words, "work overtime" and "tired".
Start the topic with "overtime". You can think of salary, dreams, abilities, colleagues, boss, working atmosphere, etc. Then we can talk: "What I fear most at work is encountering colleagues who get into trouble. Do you have colleagues like that?"
Using "tired" to start the topic, you can think of rest, sleep, entertainment, massage, etc. You can say: "I see you are so tired. Let's go to a movie on the weekend to relax."
It not only diverts attention, but also takes advantage of opportunities to go on dates. It kills two birds with one stone.
3. Guide the topic
Go and talk to the girl about the topics she wants to talk about, celebrities, TV series, variety shows , fitness, etc. This can greatly satisfy girls’ desire to share and their right to speak, and can also subtly embed their own high value in these topics.
For example, when talking about fitness, we can say: "I made a fitness meal last time.It’s really cheap and delicious, a quick sale for light takeout. ”
Guide the topic and show that the core of high value is that you have a life and value that others do not have.
But we don’t have to make something out of nothing, we have to pretend or something, just show it Your strengths, such as singing and good figure, are all values ??you can show.
