Many boys don’t know how to chat with girls to feel in love. In fact, chatting is not everything in love, but chatting is a tool to promote the relationship. But many boys don’t know how to chat and often waste the topic. Now I will share with you how to chat with girls and fall in love? Feeling in love through chatting.
1. Avoid the question-and-answer type of household registration check
How to avoid the question-and-answer type of household registration check? It is very simple. Just remember the formula and apply it: Summary formula ：Topic+Feedback+Extension
How to extend? Extend these four aspects: praise, attract, amuse, and show yourself (abbreviated as: praise, hook, tease, show)
Just say that when you chat with a girl, it is like performing a talk show on the stage. The reason why girls will notice you and like you is because you are interesting enough, so they will buy your tickets to support you and watch your performance. For example:
Male: What are you doing?
Female: I didn’t do anything, I just had a meal
Male: Not bad, I fed the pigs. (Feedback + Amusement)
You can use the topic of "eating" to expand it and talk about it in four directions, including praising her, attracting her, making her laugh, and showing off yourself. .
For example: Man: Well, it’s a bit sour (feedback + attraction, attracting her to ask what’s wrong with your words)
< p> Male: Well, I’m going to cook something delicious myself (feedback + show off myself, show that I can cook)These four ideas are very easy to use, and perfectly avoid the question-and-answer chat mode. .
2. Chatting produces the feeling of being in love
The feeling of being in love, why is it called a feeling, because love relies on feelings rather than rational thinking to judge whether or not. So when you are chatting with a girl, it is best to use your feelings directly: I feel XXX, I feel you XXX. It’s your true psychological feeling. If you feel happy, just say happy. If you feel curious or angry, just say so directly.
Because in this way, your relationship will have "emotional ups and downs." This emotional ups and downs is exactly the underlying logic of love. Feelings cause you to have emotions, and emotions in turn affect feelings.
3. Chatting to enhance relationships
Finally, let’s talk about how to chat with girls to enhance relationships. This is It's when she's already attracted to you. The girl already has a crush on you. At this time, the boy can take the initiative and try to say something to enhance the relationship. For example: Do you miss me? Did you miss me? Come on.
When a girl likes you very much, she will fully cooperate with your invitation, because a girl's non-rejection is taking the initiative. But many people don’t know thisIn this way, they always use the method of "promoting first, then agreeing" to promote the relationship. This is the wrong approach in the first place - for example: direct confession.
Direct confession is to promote first and then agree. In this way, you will give the girl a chance to reject you, but it will make the girl hate you.
The correct approach is: agree in advance + then enhance the relationship. That is, no matter what the girl thinks, you should first assume that she likes you, and then say tentative words to pull her up and see her reaction. If she responds well, it will gradually escalate to confession. If the reaction is not good, it doesn't matter, so there is no need to continue. Just keep going deeper and continue to be friends and attract. In this way, your relationship will slowly become closer and closer.
