As the saying goes, Jiang Taigong is a fisherman who is willing to take the bait, but what do girls mean by fishing? In fact, many boys may have passed through the trap of fishing girls, or been caught or escaped by luck, but they still don’t know what they are. Just caught the fish that was caught. Today I will explain to you in detail what girls mean when they say fishing? And how boys should avoid being fished?
1. What do girls mean when they say fishing?
Before explaining what girls fishing means, the editor will first tell you how girls use fishing techniques to trick boys::
In fact When many boys like a girl, they will often pay attention to the girl's latest developments, and even follow her around the clock on WeChat, QQ Space, and Weibo. For example, frequently refresh the girl's circle of friends to see if the girl has gone anywhere, if anything unhappy has happened, or who she has gone out with. The circle of friends of fishing-type girls is like this:
1. I am so bored and want to go out to play.
2. I’m so hungry, who can buy me something to eat?
3. I want to find someone to accompany me to xxx
A friend of this fishing-type girl Circle news does not mean that she will come out to anyone who asks her out. This is a fishing post whose purpose is to fish out the boys that girls want to date.
When a girl sends this message to the circle of friends, several boys will take the initiative to attack. However, the girl’s ideal candidate has already been answered, but she is embarrassed to take the initiative to ask out. She hopes that after seeing this boy, she will Taking the initiative to ask her out is a release window for that boy. There is another key point. A girl has another purpose in posting such a friend circle. She hopes to be invited and does not want to spend money.
2. How do boys avoid being fished by girls?
Suppose the girl you like posts such a message on Moments , indicating that she really wants to date someone, and then you need to determine one thing, who does she want to date her?
At this time, you need to do a test to see if she wants you to date her, if not, No matter how much you want to date her, no matter how active you are, it's useless. What she wants to catch is not you at all. If you act too aggressively, it will only make the woman feel irritable.
How to do a test?
Definitely not a private chat. If it is a private chat, if she wants to date someone other than you, you will be embarrassed, because at this time she is expecting a certain boy. When she finds out that it is not the boy who appears but you, she will project her disappointment onto you and have strong negative emotions towards you, such as disgust.
You can reply in Moments to see if she will reply to you.
For example: She said: I am so hungry, who can treat me to something delicious?
At this time, you can comment: There is a crayfish restaurant near xxx, which is very good.Food.
If she replies and expresses interest, you can chat with her privately, tell her the specific location, and then say, I want to go eat too, let’s go together. If you comment and she doesn't reply to your comment, or just says "thank you", then don't be too persistent. It's not you she wants to date. If you are still thinking about how to date her, she will definitely find you annoying. Might as well do nothing. But one thing you have to accept is that if she doesn't catch you in the end, your wife will be sad, which means she doesn't want to give you a chance to be alone, she has little interest in you, and you have not entered her hunting range.
Regarding what girls say about fishing, do boys hope that they are that fish? Or not that fish? It can only be said that this is also a choice made by both parties. There is another kind of girl that you need to be careful about here, that is, whoever is willing to take the bait will be the fish. This kind of girl doesn't love anyone and just enjoys the feeling of being cared about by boys. This is quite scumbag.
