When chasing a girl, whether it is an invitation, a confession, or a gift, you will inevitably encounter the embarrassing scene of being rejected by the girl. In this case, how should you reply to her to resolve the embarrassment?
How to resolve the embarrassment after being rejected by a girl?
First of all, you need to analyze whether the girl is being polite, or whether she is really rejecting you. If it's the latter, be sure to stop pestering. The correct approach is to express your thoughts clearly, but do not force girls to agree. To further reduce the psychological burden on girls, we must leave a way out for ourselves.
1. Confession is rejected by a girl
If you are rejected after confessing to a girl, it may be that the girl really doesn’t want to If he likes you, he may be rejecting your confession. If you have just met a girl and the girl doesn't know you well enough, the rejection at this time is most likely a rejection of you. No matter what the situation is, you can no longer persist. You must reduce the pressure in time, reduce the psychological burden on girls, and make some long-term plans.
You can reply:
"I also feel that it is a bit early to say this. Don't put any burden on me. I will talk about it later when my mind is warm."
"I also If you feel that we are not suitable for you, don't put any burden on you. Just respect your inner choice."
"Whether I like you or not is my own business. Don't let me influence you and just be yourself."
2. The invitation was rejected by the girl
If the invitation was rejected by the girl, it may be that it is really inconvenient for the girl, or Maybe the girl really doesn't want to see you, or she thinks you're not worthy of her seeing you. Even if she promised you before and now breaks the promise, don't show any mood swings. Don't let women feel that you are very demanding and not generous enough. Stop the invitation first, and then handle it further based on the girl's attitude.
You can reply:
"Okay, remember to buy a drink to make it up to me next time."
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"Then let's make an appointment for you to deal with your affairs first."
3. Showing favor to others Girls Rejected
In order to express their feelings, some brothers gave girls gifts, red envelopes, and took the initiative to help, but they were rejected by girls. This kind of rejection may be because the girl is afraid that you will misunderstand, or she may be worried about feeling guilty for accepting your favor, or she may really not like you. In this case, you must first reduce the psychological burden on the girl. If the other party insists on refusing, then stop showing kindness.
You can reply:
"Don't think too much. I just feel that you, a little girl, can't do these things."
"IIt’s just a matter of borrowing flowers and offering Buddhas to find a suitable owner for her.”
“It’s just a little effort. You say that and I feel like I’m being deliberate (awkward expression)”
In short, being rejected by a girl is It is a very common phenomenon. As a boy, you must be generous and be able to withstand blows. Don’t let your heart turn cold just because a girl rejects you once. Women are looking for a strong man, and he must not be able to withstand blows. Men.
