Faced with aloof girls, boys feel that they are difficult to approach from the bottom of their hearts. In fact, this kind of girls are not really cold, but they are not good at interacting with strangers. Therefore, when facing strangers, the first attitude they show is rejection. At this time, boys can try to contact her friends first and mix with them. After you get to know her, these friends will also become an assist in your relationship. After you get to know her through insinuations, her affection for you will double. How should you pursue a cold girl?
1. Don’t be too enthusiastic
When facing this kind of girl, boys must not act too enthusiastic If you are too enthusiastic, you will be like a fly in the eyes of girls. Girls' first reaction is to drive you away, so what boys have to do at this time is not to create boredom. When she looks very cold, you should be colder than her. When she is cold, you should look colder than her. Boys can talk and laugh with every girl around her, but they must Don't talk to her too much.
2. Care from time to time
Boys must pay attention to some details, such as preparing breakfast for her, delivering her medicine in time when she is sick, and telling her morning and evening every day Ann wait, remember what she said, although these are very small things, if the boy keeps insisting, the girl will be easily moved and even think you are more reliable than other boys.
Aloof girls are very lonely inside. They need someone to care about them. If you can give them tenderness for a long time and let them get used to living with you, then even Bai Fumei will be devoted to you.
3. Guide her into your situation
When a girl is unpredictable about you , will want to get to know you intensely. At this time, the boy should further guide the girl into his own situation and take the opportunity to win her over. For aloof girls, they are extremely insecure in their hearts. At this time, they need warm embraces and solid arms to protect them. They are unwilling to show their fragile side to boys, so boys should always pay attention to them. When they are unhappy, figure out the reason. Most of the time, they will slowly open up to you and pour out their feelings.
4. Occasional romance
Romance does not have to be done in a particularly luxurious outdoor setting. In fact, the romance that this kind of girl needs is for you to cook a meal for her. , or sing a song for her. No girl can refuse the romance of a boy, so boys should prepare some small surprises and romance from time to time to pursue them.
Summary: Aloof girls are not that difficult to chase, they just want more security. Boys must not be so stupid that they don’t know.
