< p> Here, how do you know if the other party is compatible with you?
When both parties are unfamiliar with each other , it is really difficult to know whether we can talk or not. At most, we just have a feeling whether we can talk or not.
At this stage, I personally feel that it doesn’t matter to show a little more kindness. I am very easy to talk to friends with whom I can talk (not necessarily interested).
There is a female friend around me. She once met a man who was quite good, not to mention tall and handsome. The point is that she felt that the things that boys care about are somewhat similar to hers. Girls just want to have a good chat with him.
The other party is also very strange, at least the girl can’t figure it out. The boy seems to be quite interested in the girl (when we meet), but it is difficult to chat on the Internet when we go home. Every time he sends it It often took half an hour for a reply to the message, which was really unbearable for the impatient girl. Later, once, the girl was really a little angry and thought it was better to forget it. It was really painful not being able to talk.
Of course there may be many reasons for not being able to chat, but the point is that my girl friend cannot accept this way of getting along, no matter what Whether the boy is not interested in her enough, or wants to play tricks on the girl, or it is just his nature. The girls all think that the frequency and rhythm of each other are not right, so in the end they think about it and forget it.
The reason why many so-called experts advise against reading and replying in seconds is that reading and replying in seconds can easily make people feel that you are cheap. Frankly speaking, this is because your personal image has not been established well. And if it is a high-quality man that a girl considers to respond to her instantly, this will definitely make the girl excited.
But you still have to pay attention to the fact that girls usually think of men as high-quality men, and they usually have certain achievements in their careers, so if your seconds to reply are anytime, 24 hours a day, 24 hours a day, all year round. If you don't like it, it's really better not to.
There is another reason. People will particularly want to chase things that they can’t catch. Just like playing with a cat. It’s not unusual for things to be around you all the time, but you can’t muster the energy to chase them if they are always far away. , so it is more fun to hold the cat teasing stick from far away and sometimes close. This is a kind of human nature, and it does have its effect when played well.
But it also depends on the person who uses it. For some girls with enough experience, they will think that you are pretending to be a ghost. For those who require depth of communication, For girls who are more mature, they will feel that they are not familiar enough with you, and they will consider other ways to connect with her.Boys with higher degrees.
Therefore, in fact, the best way is to build your self-confidence from the ground up. When you have time, read and reply in seconds. If you have no time, it doesn’t matter if you don’t read or reply.
People must respect themselves before others. Put yourself first and make choices that make you happy. You will definitely gain the respect of the other person. Then you don’t need to worry and struggle with every little detail, because None of that actually matters.
